I have seen her once before in the train. She must be 70+ years old. She sells earrings/rubber-bands/hair-clips. She gets into the train with two boxes which she can hardly carry! The first time I had seen her sometime last week at around 7:45 pm, I purchased a hair-band from her then. I was quite touched to see her doing all the hard-work at her age, I have seen so many young, healthy women beg for livelihood (sometimes they send their small children to do the same while they will sit at someplace and gossip!).
Today I saw her again, with two boxes on her head filled with earrings,rubber-bands, hair-clips. Some girls sitting next to me took the earrings box. So she sat in the place opposite me. After resisting for sometime, I decided to speak to her. I asked her what makes her work at this age? She saw up towards the ceiling, with her hands pointing upwards - she meant to say 'GOD's wish!' And then she started talking - like any other old lady, she also seemed to love to talk. She was saying 'I don't want to beg for living. Whatever I can I, am doing. All my stuff are only for 5 Rs. I do not sell expensive stuff.....' I asked her 'Where do you stay?' She replied ' I stay in Mulund'. I was shocked - I asked her 'All the way you come here from Mulund?' She said 'Yes, the central trains are so crowded, I cannot get in. So I come here. I left the earlier train 'cos it was very crowded. On Sundays there is a lot of rush in the trains.....' After listening to her I picked-up one earring from her box and told her I m buying this. I did not do any selection, I did not buy it because I needed it, but here is this woman who wants to work to live and I wish to help her in whatever way I can. And the earring is very nice, I am going to wear it often!
I prayed to GOD to give her good health and happiness. Then after a thought, I prayed that he should give her wealth too. After all, as she said 'Everything is GOD's wish'! I thought that there might be other people who might want to pray for her, knowing her story. Hence this post.
This lady is a motivation factor for me - I also want to work hard! :). I was tempted to tell her 'TAKE CARE' as I was getting down the train but I did not the Hindi/Marathi translation for it and I doubted if she would understand English. So I just kept staring at her without saying a word. Those unspoken words are there in my mind and I want to convey the same to her the next time I see her - 'TAKE CARE'